As I try to make my way to the ordinary world…

I usually try to stay away from touching, soft subjects on DUNDERBRAIN, for no other reason than that isn’t what the DUNDERBRAIN is about.  However things can’t always be cynical and sarcastic, or fabulous and funny.  Sometimes they’re just real. Something real that I’ve had to come to terms with in the past couple days is my life isn’t ordinary.  I’ve never been the average, run of the mill Joe and I’m happy with that.  However recently I met someone that was.  My friend told me that if I want to find a love that’s satisfying I’m going to have […]

Breaking up is a PR nightmare…

Yup, that’s right kids.  The DUNDERBRAIN got DUNDERDUMPED.  I won’t go into the sappy details of it any further than instead of coffee this morning I got the feared “we need to talk… alone” email.  Really, what else could that mean?  So I let myself feel for approximately 15 minutes then I went back to my usual routine of clubbing baby seals and eating little girls alive. After that, breaking up sucks on your social life.  When you’re a couple you start doing couple things, making appearances together, taking pictures together, commenting on each other’s social networks, all that crap […]

Just a school of fish.

It has been exactly 30 days since my last blog. THIRTY MOTHER FUCKING DAYS. Did you miss me? Well, as far as “pruning periods” go folks I’ve been chopped back to a stub with this one. Everything in my life has changed, turned upside down if you will. I’m 27 years old. I’ve started a new career. I’ve just left a 4-year relationship. The question is… Where do I go now? Dating again after not dating for a prime 4-year period of your life is shit-ass-suck-pussy. Things change DRAMATICALLY pre and post major relationship. Before you have that first one, […]

Final Breakup VII

Recently I’ve learned a lot of important lessons.  Many of these lessons include social interaction but mainly they’ve been lessons in how to think.  After watching “What the Bleep Do We Know?” I have been making a conscious effort to turn my thoughts around.  When I have a negative thought, I counter it with a positive thought.  Lately this has been very important in my life considering my unsavory relationship-related circumstances.  There’s so much you really start to see when you wipe the negativity-cobwebs from your eyes…   One thing that has become very clear to me is breaking up […]